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[devin_chain]

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leave me an anonymous comment pouring your heart out. say anything. tell me your stories, your secrets, those things no one ever asks but you wish to tell. tell me abut your love, your hate, your indifference, your joy. tell me about what's inside of you when you're reading through these entries on your friends list, and tell me why you continue to come back here. tell me anything.

post anonymously. speak honestly, because there isn't any censure here. post as many times as you like. one faceless wonder to another.

and then, pass it on.

ETA: Back from dinner. The confessional is now open.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

(i haven't told anybody; everybody i know would either think me silly for making a big deal of it, or think me wrong because i did it at all.)

[devin-chain.livejournal.com]

I don't think you're silly or wrong, and I don't have religious feelings about sex -- well, other than my pagan feelings which boil down to the rede: "An it harm none, do as ye will." That translates to "as long as no one gets hurt (including you)...."

I understand terror about regret, though. I hope it turns out well for you. *biggest hugs*

[deadlychameleon.livejournal.com]

Hey, I know this wasn't aimed at me, but I read it and really felt for you.

Sex is a very personal thing, what's right for your friends isn't necessarily right for you. The responsibility that places on a person to chose what is right for them can feel a little bit overwhelming at times.

What my advice to you would be, as someone who's been in a similar situation, is to focus on how you feel now, since the future is unpredictable. If it feels very right to you, and you're being careful (ie,condom use), then you're probably doing okay. If it feels wrong to you, make adjustments until it doesn't. That's the best I've come up with so far, and I hope it helps!