Something I meant to add. There is a curious situation one can find oneself when ones lover is making sounds of delight and you are not involved. There is the moment of decisions to decide if you are angry and jealous or rooting for the home team. I think everyone should get to watch thier lover be pleasured by another. So you can watch them and enjoy the sight of it without being involved. You get to see how beautiful they are and share a different kind of moment. End random thought.